About
A reflection tool, not a verdict.
RelationshipScan was built for the night you reread a conversation and you still can't tell what just happened. Most couple arguments do not need a verdict. They need a careful second read.
The tool runs your chat through five validated clinical frameworks — Gottman, Attachment Theory, Nonviolent Communication, Schema Therapy, and Emotion Focused Therapy — and returns a structured report. It names the patterns, surfaces what each side was actually communicating, and points to the repair moments that were available.
The report is honest about both sides. If your messages contributed to the spiral, the report names that too. That is the point.
We do not train models on user conversations. The uploaded chat is deleted after the report is generated. The report itself stays in your account, visible only to you. Read the privacy policy for the full detail.
Built with care. Not a substitute for therapy. If you are in crisis, contact local emergency services or a licensed mental health professional.
Contact: support@relationshipscan.com